Maybe your dog is anxious or reactive. Maybe things look okay on the outside, but something feels off. Maybe you’ve done the training, the socializing, the setups — and you’re still not getting what you hoped for.
Or, maybe you want to get started right and avoid all of that in the first place.
Somewhere inside, you already know: this isn’t just about behavior.
It’s about relationship.
It’s time to stop chasing BEHAVIOR fixes with ineffective dog training that ignores root causes and damages your long-term relationship.
Even reward-based methods, though well-intentioned, are still rooted in the old “train to obey” culture.
When cooperation depends on commands, setups, or treats, it may look like connection… but it’s still about control — not trust.
And our dogs feel that.
Your dog knows.
You know.
That tension, that disconnection, that subtle pressure — it’s baked in.
And it’s why so many dog moms still feel stuck, no matter how hard they try.
The behaviors you’re struggling with aren’t flaws in your dog —
and they’re not a reflection of your failure, either.
They’re not “training problems to fix.” They’re signals.
Clues that something deeper is happening — and that your dog is trying to communicate with you.
The old training paradigm taught us to respond with control: commands, corrections, setups.
But real transformation happens when we respond with connection.
Because when you and your dog both feel safe, heard, and understood — everything begins to shift.
We can enjoy a great life with our dogs without obedience training, behavior “fixing,” or reward-based compliance.
When we understand what’s really happening — in our dogs, and in ourselves — we change the entire dynamic.
Our dogs don’t need to be trained to be “good.”
They’re already good.
And when they feel emotionally safe, deeply connected, and truly understood … they naturally begin to cooperate — not because they’re told to, but because they want to.
And the same is true for us.
That’s when the magic happens…
✅ You become a calm and confident presence that your dog naturally mirrors.
✅ Your dog comes to you joyfully — without relying on obedience to a trained recall.
✅ You guide your dog with subtlety, using gentle leadership instead of commands.
✅ Your dog stays connected to you, even around distractions — without setups or desensitizing.
✅ You and your dog learn to walk in sync, on and off leash, as true partners.
✅ Your dog CHOOSES to be attentive and responsive to YOU, instead of chasing or barking at things, without needing to micromanage them.
✅ Your dog is happy to just hang out with you, without demanding engagement or attention, and without being trained to stay in their ‘place’.
✅ Your dog is calm and secure when home alone — no separation anxiety spirals.
✅ Your dog trusts you to make choices that keep them safe, calm, and happy and their over-the-top behaviors fade away.
📘 The BPA Foundation Formula
Our 5C’s “Tree of Trust” course is your step-by-step roadmap for building a strong partnership foundation.
🎓 Masterclasses & Resources
Over 45 in-depth trainings on walking, barking, emotions, and more — for every stage of your journey.
💬 Live Coaching with Kathy
Get real-time personal feedback, clarity, and support in our group coaching calls.
💖 Private Community
You’ll be surrounded by women who get it — who’ve been where you are, and who are walking this path beside you.
Two simple options. Same wholehearted support.
Choose what feels aligned for you right now — either way, you’re saying yes to the partnership life you’ve been dreaming of.
$397/year
(Limited Time: Save $191/yr compared to monthly! That’s like $33/mo)
✨ A beautiful way to say “yes” to your partnership dreams!
$49/month
(An amazing value that you won’t find anywhere – even at 4x the price!)
✨ A low-cost way to begin your transformation, one step at a time.
I’ve taught thousands of brilliant, devoted dog moms how to create a life of freedom and trust with their dogs — without obedience, micromanaging, or training to “fix” what isn’t broken.
Brilliant Partners Academy is the program I built from my own experience with reactive dogs, competition dogs, rescue dogs, and students who had tried everything else.
It’s not a quick fix.
It’s a simple, yet oh-so-powerful shift — with a support system to help you make it real, one step at a time.
I would love to welcome you in and walk this transformational path with you.
Much love,
Kathy xo
Stella talks about her reactive poodle...
“Bela was not enjoying her walks and neither were we…I was so frustrated and sad. This partnership lifestyle is so much easier! It is the best decision I have made in years.”
~Ulla K and Bela
Lisbon, Portugal
“My rescue dog Charlie was totally overwhelmed at everything in his new environment. I was exhausted, humiliated and frustrated. After BPA, I’m so happy and amazed at how wonderful life is with my dogs!”
~Sue Mimm, with Charlie and Leila
Tyrol, Austria
“There was a time when walks were difficult, unhappy and uncomfortable … but today, our walk was perfect.
I am here, standing on the building blocks of the Brilliant Partners Academy …
… all the insights and wisdom of classes, live coaching, sharing with and learning from fellow BeePees.”
~Marianne with Clover and Bowie
Huntington, NY
“My dream dog had become a nightmare, my life was in turmoil and my family was miserable. With our partnership foundation, life is liberating, joyful and totally works! Who knew?”
~Dee and Phalen
“I thought: I’ve tried everything, training classes, behavior sessions, reactive dog classes, I have nothing to lose. 10 months later, we all enjoying our Brilliant Partners lifestyle and I’m so proud of my 3 fur kids!”
~Bettina, with Murphy, Mary and Bear
"After being kicked out of obedience class, I found Kathy Kawalec. Instead of focusing on obedience and training, we breathed a sigh of relief and began focusing on appreciating each other and observing and listening to each other. Life since is a daily delight with my girl!”
~Jane and Skye
Empowering you with everything you need to master practical partnership skills that replace the need for behavior training, obedience commands, and micromanaging — while preventing (or resolving) reactivity and anxiety … renewing your dreams for a life of fun and freedom with your dogs!
"After adopting Bella who was reactive to EVERYTHING, I never dreamed I would be hiking with BOTH of my dogs, enjoying nature without constantly scanning, and I love having the tools I learned in BPA to keep my little pack safe, calm and happy!"
~Terri and Bella
“My dream agility puppy was OCD, over-aroused and uncontrollable on walks and in the agility building. Now, we live in partnership because who I am for my dogs comes from my desire to live with my dogs in a way that feeds our souls - not my ego."
~Kim with Summit
"We enjoy our walks and adventures and cuddles. I trust her so she is off lead and exploring so much more which she loves. My relationship with Jess is 90% joyful, loving and fun, rather than 90% worried, stressed, upset and frustrated like before."
~Erin with Jess
"We had a rocky start and when nothing was working, I regretted getting him. Finally, through Kathy's program, I had a mindset breakthrough that changed everything with my dog.
I don't cry with frustration anymore. I love my boy with all my heart and he now comes running to me with a smile that is something I cherish and makes me cry with joy. "
~Lori with Cabo
"Is this the same dog that threw herself at the patio door with manic barking that drove me to exhaustion? What I love about my life with Freya now is the feeling of partnership.
I get such a thrill when I go outside to check on her in the garden, and she immediately looks at me, and if I need her to come in, she skips happily along at my side. My heart feels lighter, and I am in awe about how amazing she is."
~Pauline with Freya
"I am no longer an anxious ball of nerves on walks. The progress we have made is beyond anything I had ever imagined possible.
We no longer chase wildlife, joggers or cyclists and we can walk where other dogs are and remain relaxed and connected with each other -- on leash and off!"
~Ros with Phoebe, Myrtle and Ekko
Absolutely! Whether you’re a new dog mom, have years of experience, or are dealing with a puppy, rescue, working dog, or a sport dog, this system is designed for you. My approach is tailored to meet the needs of any dog, including those who are reactive, fearful, or anxious. I personally ensure that the strategies we use are adaptable to your unique situation, helping you grow into a calm, confident dog mom.
You're in the right place. Many dog moms who join our community face similar challenges. My method focuses on building trust and communication that addresses the root causes of anxiety and reactivity. By nurturing a deeper understanding and partnership, you and your dog will start seeing significant improvements.
Brilliant Partners Academy isn’t about quick fixes; it’s about transforming your relationship with your dog. Unlike traditional obedience training, we focus on partnership and communication that align with natural canine behavior. You'll learn to connect with your dog on a deeper level, which is both more effective and fulfilling.
While every dog and situation is different, most members notice positive changes within the first few weeks. As you apply the principles of partnership and communication, you and your dog will begin to understand each other better, leading to quicker and more lasting results.
No worries at all! All sessions are recorded and available for you to watch/listen at your convenience. Plus, you can always submit your questions in advance and I'll address them in the session, so you can catch the replay when it suits you.
I've made everything as straightforward as possible. You can access the academy from any device with internet access, and I’m here to help if you encounter any issues. Plus, our community and support team are just a message away if you need any assistance.
You will receive an email with all of the details within minutes of your purchase, and you can login and get started immediately! Just follow the roadmap and you'll be on your way to a brilliant partnership life with your dog.
Yes, you can cancel your membership at any time. Just let us know 48 hours before your monthly or annual renewal date, and we'll handle it for you. I want you to feel secure in your decision to join us, with the freedom to decide what's best for you and your dog.
Yes, there is a 7-day, 100% money-back guarantee. If you find that the academy isn't the right fit within the first week, I will gladly refund your investment. I'm committed to helping you find the best path to a brilliant partnership with your dog, and if that's not here, I'll honor your decision.
Don’t let another day go by feeling frustrated or disconnected from your dog. Join Brilliant Partners Academy now and start transforming your relationship today. Remember, the sooner you start, the sooner you'll enjoy the peaceful, cooperative, and joyful life you and your dog deserve!
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