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The fastest and simplest path to resolve behavior struggles with your dog ...
Rescue your relationship: focus on connection, communication and cooperation instead of training and get the brilliant life you and your dog deserve.
Feeling disheartened by time-consuming traditional training that's not working, and a lost connection with your dog? Worried that no approach suits your unique situation and challenges? Don't lose hope. There is a holistic approach turned into an easy-to-follow, step-by-step program that has helped hundreds of women with all kinds of dogs to resolve behavior struggles and fall in love with being a dog mom again.
Most coaches charge anywhere from $67 to $199 per month for this kind of value. But I am committed to making this a membership that all dog moms can benefit from for just $7/month
Stop struggling with meltdowns, frustration, overwhelm, and training methods that just don't work for you and your dog
🔴😨Big emotions, unmet needs, and reactive behavior will keep the nervous system stuck in survival mode for dog moms AND their dogs. So no matter how hard we try to train away our dog’s difficult behaviors, nothing really changes. 😭
❌ Focusing on training behaviors is NOT the most effective way to live happily with dogs, and doing so often leads to getting stuck in a reactive spiral of stress.
THE FACT IS: 👣💕🐾 when your dog feels like your partner, they WANT to be, and choose to be, cooperative. It’s their nature! No training or behavior modification is even needed — that’s true for any healthy relationship.
And when your relationship is built on a solid foundation of trusting partnership…
🌟 You have a dog that loves to listen, and is attentive, responsive, and responsible.
So, instead of having a dog that pulls or lunges on the leash, or barks like mad at everything, or obsessively chases, or is overly anxious or nervous about normal things … you have a dog that checks in with you, comes when you call, trusts you enough that they are not on hyper alert 24/7, and calms down quickly after an upset.
💖 And isn’t that what you really want?
We get right to the core of what we dog moms, and our dogs, really need to thrive: feeling connected, feeling safe, feeling heard and understood. We learn to clearly communicate in a way that our dogs naturally understand. All mixed in with lots of love and plenty of fun!
☯️ It’s a mutually respectful, honoring way of living in harmony with our dogs as family. You’ll love it as much as your dog does! It’s a win-win!
✨ These foundation strategies worked for Ros, and Dee, and Sue, and Ana, and Marianne, and Beth, and Sandra, and thousands of other dog moms since 2007, when I first began teaching online.
I can teach you too!
It all starts here in the Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders program. It’s our partnership foundation that gives you the QUICK WINS with the behavior breakthroughs that you need right now … AND the foundation that will enable you to GROW your partnership into a brilliant life with your dog.
“Kicked out of obedience class … to brilliant partners!”
“After being kicked out of obedience class and failing reactive dog class, I found Kathy Kawalec. Instead of focusing on obedience and training, we breathed a sigh of relief and began focusing on appreciating each other and observing and listening to each other. Life since is a daily delight with my girl!”
~Jane and Skye
There are so many [outdated] methods and tactics still being taught ... how many have you tried?
- Obedience training sessions every single day, along with (endless) micro-managing your dog. (Sit! Off! Down! Stay! Come! Leave it! Stop! Place! No! ... ugh)
- Tried to be a better trainer like you were told (but you only feel more shame and guilt from failing - and you don't really want to be a dog trainer anyway)
- Provide more daily walks (even if your dog is a hot mess on those walks -- and so are you!)
- Lots more exercise they said!! That will get your barky, reactive, over-aroused dog to calm down. (um, no, more arousal never works)
- Provide hours of daily enrichment and activity. (that only made your dog more demanding, and you more exhausted)
- Enroll in obedience classes, work with a behaviorist, hire a private dog trainer (but your dog STILL doesn't behave at home, in normal life)
- Plan setups and carefully arrange 'under-threshold' exposures to try to get your reactive dog to ignore their triggers. (now you are both hyper-vigilant and more stressed than ever!)
- Use (outdated) tactics like like corrections, pack leader, be the alpha. OR use 'positive' tactics like: throw away the food bowl, nothing in life is free = ignore your dog and withhold love, attention, food and interaction until your dog is compliant. (none of it worked, didn't last, or just doesn't feel right or aligned with your values)
- THEN: Nothing is working, so you search the internet, join online dog groups, read a pile of books, and listen to friends, neighbors, and trainers, searching for 'the' magic answer for your dog. (you only got more confused with all of the strong and differing opinions, leaving you feeling like the biggest failure, because everyone else seems to 'get it' but you still struggle with your dog.)
What if you followed a simple, modern, holistic path to be a calm and confident dog mom with a happy, cooperative dog?
- Your dog is attentive and responsive and better able to listen.
- You no longer fear your dog's meltdowns and can confidently de-escalate them quickly.
- You are able to be calm, and present, and enjoy your dog more fully.
- You feel confident with just how much and what type of exercise and enrichment your dog really needs to thrive.
- You understand your dogs unique personality drivers, and their deeper social needs and the root causes of their 'bad' behaviors ...
- And NOW you know how to proactively meet their needs, along with your own, so that your foundation of cooperation opens the door to your dream life with your dog! No more second-guessing!!
Hi There!
I'm Kathy, a dog mom that has a pack of HAPPY + COOPERATIVE DOGS -- and we can do ALL the things we love -- at home and on all our adventures...
Kathy Kawalec
Founder and Coach
And I want the same for you!
But then I got a new ‘dream’ puppy that was to be my rising star, BUT my world was turned upside down when we began to crash and burn.
I was really focused on ‘getting everything right’ with Phoenix as a puppy and I spent every available moment with her — positive manners and obedience training, trick training, and plenty of bonding activity and enrichment.
- •More obedience and more impulse control training.
- •More exercise to tire her out.
- The thing is that she was PERFECT when we were in ‘training mode’…but that didn’t matter much when we were not.
After trying (almost) everything and nothing was working, I finally realized two things:
one.
two.
And that's when it hit me!
The process that I used to raise my earlier puppies actually worked best:
- •Connection, not training.
- •Collaboration, not obedience.
- •Partnership, not transactions.
- I refocused on that, and quickly, Phoenix became my amazing partner, even after so many months of struggling!
The Best Thing?
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Once dog moms that I worked with stopped caring so much about what outdated dog training culture told them they were ‘SUPPOSED TO’ be doing, everything started to change for them…Instead of trying to work harder at being a better ‘dog trainer’ and trying harder to shape their dog into a ‘fit in the box’ version of what all ‘well-trained dogs’ were supposed to be like …They could dig under the surface to understand their dog’s deep drivers and needs, and better understand their role as their dog’s loving, clear and kind role model and guide.
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That’s when they can start to (re)build their foundation that is based on connection, trust, and love …… and are able to show up as their best self for the dog they love so very much.The next best thing?The same strategies worked for Ros, and Dee, and Sue, and Ana, and Marianne, and Beth, and Sandra, and thousands of other dog moms since 2007, when I first began teaching online.
SO HOW DO WE DO IT?
The Brilliant Dog Foundation Path:
The exact steps to build the RIGHT foundation with your dog so that you can finally have the behavior breakthrough you need ...
WELCOME TO
Become a calm and confident dog mom with a cooperative, happy dog ... without obedience training, or relying on treats or arousing games, or corrections of any type
🚀 Here’s how it goes when you follow my simple, modern, holistic roadmap…
✨Your dog is attentive and responsive, and your dog loves to come running when you call out their name.
✨You and your dog learn to walk as partners, just like all social animals do naturally…no training needed!
✨You are able to be calm, present, and enjoy your dog more fully.
✨You feel confident with just how much and what type of exercise and enrichment your dog really needs to thrive.
✨You understand your dog’s unique personality drivers, and their deeper social needs and the root causes of their ‘bad’ behaviors …
✨And NOW you know how to proactively meet their needs, along with your own, so that your foundation of cooperation opens the door to your dream life with your dog! No more second-guessing!!
✅ I can teach you too!
When you join the Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders
Discover how to start right or start over with your dog.
Interrupt relationship-damaging behavior patterns ...
... and launch empowering daily practices that WORK!
You'll get instant access to:
- 3 bite-sized, self-paced modules that deep dive into the step-by-step partnership foundation strategies.
- All the worksheets, journals and planners to guide you every step of the way.
- Access to our compassionate community for connection and support with like-hearted dog moms on their own journey with their dogs.
- Feedback and guidance on the challenges you face along the way.
- Live Q+A's every month with our expert partnership coaches
- New trainings and tools every month.
Here's a sneak-peek of what's inside ...
Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders: The Course
- Discover the 4 daily practices that diffuse reactivity, over-arousal, and other challenging behaviors...and create a calmer, happier, and more peaceful life with your dog
- Explore the 'under the surface' reasons for your dog's behavior, and how to meet their needs so that you can reach a new level of trust and cooperation with your dog.
- How to create a plan for regulating your dog's nervous system so you can break free of the difficult or reactive behavior stress spiral, while increasing confidence, connection and cooperation.
- Find out how to avoid meltdowns, and how to create a circle of safety that reduces over-arousal, stress with a roadmap to partnership and a happy cooperative life with your dog.
New Trainings and Tools Every Month
Educational, fun, and interactive trainings and tools that you can use!
Live Support with our Expert Partnership Coaches
Daily Feedback in our Support Group from our Partnership Coaches.
+Monthly Live Q+A with Kathy!
Worksheets, Guides, Templates and Planners
All the worksheets, journals and planners to guide you every step of the way.
How to Stop Hyper Barking Guidebook
What are the steps to getting on top of unwanted barking?
Guidebook for Sensitive, Anxious or Reactive Dogs
Stop the trust leaks with your hyper, anxious or reactive dog
Walking As Partners
Your Foundation Steps
Follow this natural ‘order’ to learning to leash walk in harmony with your dog.
Name Game and Dance Invitation Training
Your dog will come running every time you call their name!!
Your BDFB Course Roadmap Checklist
This will make it so easy for you to check off your progress as you move through the course and the assignments!
Your Monthly Partnership Planner
This planner will help keep your foundation building momentum going!
Plus Your Bonus Bundle...
"Say Goodbye to Overwhelm" Training
Your Private Members Only Community
There is NO other group that offers this level of positive partnership support. You are not alone!!
I Have A Question For You ...
What if I can help you feel more confident and in control of your dog parenting this month?
Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders is for Two Specific Dog Moms...
- You’re a dog mom who wants to get your brilliant partnership with your dog started right …
- …so that you never have to face the reactive or anxious dog behavior spiral with your dog.
If you can check ONE of these boxes, you are in the right place!!
You are ready to break free of the spiral of stress and build a lasting and sustainable partnership foundation with your dogs.
Join Us:
You don't need more obedience training, reliance on treats or arousing games, counter-conditioning setups, or corrections of any type to have a well-behaved dog that is a delight to live with.
If You're Asking Yourself...
"I've already tried programs that didn't help me and my dog, why do I need Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders?"
THEN LET ME TELL YOU THIS:
- This is nothing like anything you’ve tried before.
- This doesn’t give you one-size-fits-all or band-aid solutions OR a bunch of disconnected training exercises or games -- it empowers you with simple life-long tools and strategies to handle all the dog parenting challenges that come your way, now and for years to come.
- This will help you to flip the switch from feeling like you're failing as a dog mom to creating the life you dream of with your dog.
- You aren’t in this alone anymore. Being part of a supportive community of amazing dog moms that are on the same journey as you makes all the difference.
- This will allow you to get the support and feedback to become the dog mom you want to be and to have a joyful cooperative relationship with your dogs.
- There's no risk (7-day money back guarantee and you can cancel at any time)
I Swear By Everything...
I share with you in the Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders because it's the exact method that allows me to be the dog mom I want to be and to experience my dream life with my dogs.
Here's What My Members Have to Say About My Programs...
“I never dreamed this was possible!”
"After adopting Bella who was reactive to EVERYTHING, I never dreamed I would be hiking with BOTH of my dogs, enjoying nature without constantly scanning, and I love having the tools I learned in BPA to keep my little pack safe, calm and happy!"
~Terri and Bella
“It feeds our souls - not my ego.”
“My dream agility puppy was OCD, over-aroused and uncontrollable on walks and in the agility building. Now, we live in partnership because who I am for my dogs comes from my desire to live with my dogs in a way that feeds our souls - not my ego."
~Kim with Summit
“Our relationship is 90% joyful, loving and fun.”
"We enjoy our walks and adventures and cuddles. I trust her so she is off lead and exploring so much more which she loves. My relationship with Jess is 90% joyful, loving and fun, rather than 90% worried, stressed, upset and frustrated like before."
~Erin with Jess
“I love my boy with all my heart!”
"We had a rocky start and when nothing was working, I regretted getting him. Finally, through Kathy's program, I had a mindset breakthrough that changed everything with my dog.
I don't cry with frustration anymore. I love my boy with all my heart and he now comes running to me with a smile that is something I cherish and makes me cry with joy. "
~Lori with Cabo
“Is this the same dog?”
"Is this the same dog that threw herself at the patio door with manic barking that drove me to exhaustion? What I love about my life with Freya now is the feeling of partnership.
I get such a thrill when I go outside to check on her in the garden, and she immediately looks at me, and if I need her to come in, she skips happily along at my side. My heart feels lighter, and I am in awe about how amazing she is."
~Pauline with Freya
“Beyond anything I ever imagined!”
"I am no longer an anxious ball of nerves on walks. The progress we have made is beyond anything I had ever imagined possible.
We no longer chase wildlife, joggers or cyclists and we can walk where other dogs are and remain relaxed and connected with each other -- on leash and off!"
~Ros with Phoebe, Myrtle and Ekko
“What do I say about a program that changed despair to joy?”
“My dream dog had become a nightmare, my life was in turmoil and my family was miserable. With our partnership foundation, life is liberating, joyful and totally works! Who knew?”
~Dee and Phalen
“I'm so proud of my 3 fur kids, and forever grateful for Kathy and her program.”
“I thought: I’ve tried everything, training classes, behavior sessions, reactive dog classes, I have nothing to lose. 10 months later, we all enjoying our Brilliant Partners lifestyle and I’m so proud of my 3 fur kids!”
~Bettina, with Murphy, Mary and Bear
“Kicked out of obedience class … to brilliant partners!”
"After being kicked out of obedience class, I found Kathy Kawalec. Instead of focusing on obedience and training, we breathed a sigh of relief and began focusing on appreciating each other and observing and listening to each other. Life since is a daily delight with my girl!”
~Jane and Skye
“I can’t even express the deep gratitude to Kathy and all of you who helped us.”
“I was struggling with Flo’s reactivity. In the city she would react to sounds, kids, scooters, skateboards. In the country she pulled on leash and off leash would chase wildlife. I was desperate and didn’t know what to do anymore.
Behind the Scenes with Brilliant Partners...
Stella talks about her reactive poodle...
Steph has a difficult struggle with her Akbash mix...
Ros was anxious about her two Viszla girls reactivity
Rhiannon turns life around for her rescued feral dog
Ana struggled with her border collie's reactivity
Charlene helped her traumatized dog feel loved
Marika trades transactional training for partnership
Alicia creates harmony with her rescues
“Oh, hi! Sure I’ve got just a minute, I am really busy — trying to get my canine sibs under control right now. They’re not very cooperative if you ask me. No matter how many times I tell them, I end up repeating myself over and over. Good thing I love my job.
Frequently Asked Questions
I'm a new dog mom, will this work for me?
Yes! This works especially well for new dog moms. The right foundation will create a better bond, a better relationship and better communication for a life of happiness with your new dog!
I'm an experienced dog mom, will this be valuable for me?
Yes, the Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders will provide you with a fresh, modern way to connect with and help your dogs to reach their true potential with you. You'll have all the resources you need to start right or start over with your dog or puppy.
Can I wait and join later?
Yes. But why wait? The longer you wait to (re)build the right foundation with your dog, the harder it will become down the road to turn things around.
Is there feedback and support included?
Yes! We are whole-heartedly committed to helping you succeed. You are welcome to post questions, updates, and videos and you have the support of our team and community. Plus there is a monthly live Q+A where a coach will answer your questions that you submit in advance.
What if I can't attend the Q+A calls Live, because of my schedule?
Replays!! Many of our dog moms catch the replays - it's so convenient ... and you get to choose what time is best for you. Plus, you can post your question in advance and your coach will answer during the live call, and you can listen/watch later.
Does this only work for a certain type of dog?
This works for all puppies and dogs of any age, breed/mix, or history ... even if your dog is reactive, hyper, anxious, fearful, non-cooperative ... and even if you have tried 'everything' and nothing has worked.
We have literally hundreds of real dog moms with real dogs in real life in all varieties of environments who have transformed their life with their difficult dogs, and they started with this foundation work, just like you.
I'm not tech-savvy. Will I be able to make this work?
Yes. You can easily access everything from your phone, tablet, laptop, or computer. You'll need internet access and your favorite device - that's it!
When will I get access:
You will receive an email with all of the details within minutes of your purchase, and you can login and get started immediately! Just follow the roadmap and you'll be on your way to a brilliant foundation with your dog.
Can I cancel the membership anytime?
Yes, you can cancel anytime. Simply let us know 24hrs before your month renews and we'll happily take care of it for you!
Is there a money-back guarantee?
Yes, we have a 7-Day, 100% money back guarantee. We'll happily refund 100% of your purchase if you cancel within 7 Days.
A Personal Invitation from Kathy...
I’ve been building partnerships with my dogs for a lifetime. Puppies I’ve raised, adults I’ve rescued, dogs that no one wanted and dogs that were said to be ‘untrainable’ and hopeless.
Each and every dog was a blessing, and ALL of my dogs became amazing companions, world-class partners in dog sports like agility and herding, and the best teachers ever!
25+ years of working professionally with over 2800 dogs and their families in over 30 countries around the world has taught me sooooo much! I’ve put together the exact ingredients that create a trusting, loving, attentive and responsive relationship with a dog … instead of one built on transactions, unable to stand up to ordinary challenges of modern life.
This Brilliant Dog Foundation Builders program shares a culmination of what I’ve learned about what makes a dog difficult, reactive, anxious … and what nurtures trust, love and cooperation instead.
If you’re committed to making this the year you build a partnership foundation with your dog, I am so eager to be your guide and help you get started! My mission is to help a million dog moms, so I hope you take advantage of the special tuition for this membership – it’s my gift to you!!
See you there!
Kathy xo
Kathy Kawalec
Founder, CEO: Dancing Hearts LLC
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